What if we built our careers not on the pressure to “measure up,” but on our strengths?
What if we stopped obsessing over our weaknesses and put more energy into what comes naturally?
We’ve explored the strengths-based approach in previous posts, and it came up again in a recent Game Changers podcast episode—this time in the context of leadership and the role of competitive personalities in the workplace.
Our guest, Kata Bánhalmi, Managing Director of Skillcom and Business Development Lead at Skilltrade, shared her journey of finding authenticity in leadership and recognising the power of knowing one’s innate strengths.
Born to lead—or can we learn it?
It’s a common myth that leaders are born, not made. Research suggests only about 10% of people have natural leadership traits. But leadership skills—clear communication, trust-building, strategic thinking—can be developed with the right support.
The challenge is to tap into our strengths within a leadership role. Kata believes leadership is less about a title and more about the space you create for others: trust, shared goals, and clear direction.
“I don’t think anyone today is born a leader who works well in every situation.
The most important task for a leader is to invest in self-development—to become more conscious of the fact that people deeply need a reliable, positive environment and strong human connections around them.
That’s the greatest leadership responsibility: to create that space and atmosphere for the teammates you work with. So they feel they can count on the person leading them—and they know where they’re headed together, what the goals are, the path to get there, the rules of the game, and their own role in it.”
But before we can do that, we need to understand ourselves. Without self-awareness, it’s easy to lose our way while trying to guide others.